How many times we just disagree the person in front of us?. We are obsessed with our own theories. We just think what we think is best in this universe. Others will believe in different school of thoughts . If they ignore what others are saying , well and good ; if not , what results is argument and counter arguments. Welcome to world of proving oneself!.
Humanity has thrived and developed so much based on understanding they developed in past for future decisions . Misunderstanding and conflict of principles led to huge wars , which did shame the creator of this universe . Even creator had to think, "if we are his/her creation". This conflict of ideas occurs at different levels.
At individual level..some possible divisions can be
1. Me v/s myself : when two inner-selves fight with each other . One will force us to do wrong thing other will try to save us from doing anything wrong. Which is write/wrong , which wins is dependent on circumstances. Sometimes there are justification, many times we just do something. This is very tricky situation when we try to justify ourselves against ourselves.
2. In friend circle : This is most fruitful scenario. Friends can't harm each other . So what results from the argument and counter arguments is so beautiful that one can be proud of being part of discussion. One can learn many things from this discussion. I am obliged to so many of my friends for teaching me many good things. This learning process is only taking beautiful dimensions these days
3: Consists of ego clashes : When one can go at any extent to prove one's point. These are the scenario , when virtues of being human are tested. What is right and wrong takes a back seat and egos and superiority complex gains front seat. What results from this argument and counter argument is friends becoming enemies . Real shameful situation this is. How we can let the situation to get to such dirty proportions. Stupidity helps us in reaching there .
India was so developed in past only due to the fact that we used to discuss a-lot about different thinking. We are so diverse because we have great tolerance. Same can be implemented at individual level .We should share our way of thinking and modification according to surrounding is the keyword/mantra.
p.s : this is dedicated to all my friends here in BIT with whom i did participate in many debates every Friday/Saturday nights for 2 years. I did learn many things from there.
p.p.s : this post also dedicated to msr and ashrita . with msr i had some debate yesterday on one of her blog entry (hey! msr , i'm looking for more debates with you). With ashrita, had exchanges today on my thinking towards "thank-you-theory".
14 comments:
"Thank You" for that dedication Neeraj ;)
For one thing, I love arguing! Maybe that is one thing which makes me get on people's nerves every once in a while!
hehe...nahi ashrita , it fun to have friends exchanging thoughts. now me not so rigid towards "thank-you".
you are 'welcome' for any future heated exchanges :P
Lol.. funny I keep having arguments of all the three kinds you mentioned.. a very argumentative post ... and there cannot be any argument about my argument, that I am sort of commenting in a very argumentative way and the arguments that are running into my mind are the outcome of this post full of different kinds of arguments..
p.s. don't mind the insanity, the pink orchid is suffering from high fever, so she let 'kAJAL' talk and when she talks, she writes comments like this one..
haha that pic is awesome Neeraj...............and somehow iam far away from arguing, but yeah i'm a silent killer!!!
Well I have come to accept.. not everyone is going to agree with you.. just as I don't agree with everyone.. SIMPLE
@kajal : oyeee!! you are welcome in all forms. Good or bad both 'KAJALs' accepted .....dil se :P
@aruna : hmmm .....silent killer ....many forms of argument....haha...
this pic was easy choice, don't had to do extensive searching...me also loved this picture....
@ hmmlife : so nice to see u here , it seems u r quite busy with life these days.
you are welcome to have argument with me like hell.....hehe..i just love that..
Well arguments are a way to enhance yourself isn't it? IT's a way to learn other ways of looking at things. It's different if you wanna embrace their point of view of not. Never be too rigid! :)
@msr : haanji , i have written same things. I am always open to arguments and myself ready to change at any point.
But love to do heated exchanges. :P
me not rigid ( have changed after doing so many acts of foolishnesses in past ...scared to repeat same mistakes)
I remain a mile away from arguments... as far as I could... and yeah... im also a silent killer ;)
nice post... :)
@laxmi : hehe....silent killer...dangerous. But we learn many things from arguments. Try this quite frequently :P
oboviously things should not get out of control while doing this.
Very very thoughtful post.....debating is fun....as long as it is debate :P
Read "Intimacy" by OSHO
@aditi : so u back!!
different types of debates...always give different results....fun
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